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Thinking With Love

Love is within our souls when we are borne but our minds are not cultivated, (grown in loving thought) therefore we can only give what we know and if we are not taught how to think loving thoughts we do not give the Love we have within.

To give Love takes usage of our minds. We must learn to think Love to give Love. Even when we do things like work, date, clean the house, cook, these actions are work but without loving thoughts while doing the actions Love is not part of the sinerio.

Loving thoughts create the emotions we know as Love.

We are all victims of Love and Love is our victim until we realize that Love is something we are not borne knowing how to do, and begin to learn how to Love.

We as humans have always thought ourselves to be Loving because we are human but the truth is Animals Love more simply because they are pure in their thought. A great example of this is children. Animals have children and raise them. Then they let them go to live their own lives. We humans try to grasp at our children and keep them to ourselves. The hardest part of Love is learning to let go with Love and grace. There is nothing wrong with wanting our children around but we must also Love them, teach them to Love and let them move on to live their own lives, grow, make mistakes and Love others.

Another great example is in our world relationships are very hard to maintain. When it is time to let go we suffer and anguish at the very thought of goodbye. Even harder is realizing that our partner is most likely going to have another relationship given time and space. Knowing this we grasp even tighter.

Love is free and grasping is possession. We need to learn how to love and let go. I found that if I wish the best for those I let go of the suffering is lessened a great deal. If I ever want to have a true loving relationship, I must wish others especially the ones I love deeply to find the same.



We react to Love with instinct but unless we cultivate it and grow with it within our minds, (Loving thoughts), we are Love’s victims and Love is our victim.
Angel



LOVE
Love is real
Real is Love
Love is feeling
Feeling Love
Love is wanting
To be Loved
Love is touch
Touch is love
Love is reaching
Reaching Love
Love is asking
To be Loved
Love is you
You and me
Love is knowing
We can be
Love is free
Free is Love
Love is living
Living Love
Love is needing
To be Loved


Givers and Takers
Angel Femia

Real charity truly comes from the heart. Most people I know that are givers have very open, loving hearts. They truly care about the people they serve or give to and ask for nothing in return. Their hearts are deeply open therefore they feel the sadness of those who are in need and deal with broken hearts and begin hurt, used and disrespected on a daily basis.

Takers are people who give when they want something but never from the heart and take what they want and more if they can get it. Takers are the ones who are braking others hearts. They don't care at all what another feels as long as they get what they want. If they can't just take what they desire they manipulate with their emotions, lie cheat, steal, and use violence, with little or no regard to the people they take from or other people who may need it more then themselves.

To give is a very beautiful thing to do. Many give as much as they are able but usually there's a price of some sorts. Similar to bartering and that is great as long as that intent is up front. Others give to be recognized in some way, name on a statue or plaque, dinner in their honor, media attention, or just a huge pat on the back. Finally the real charitable people who give from the heart with no expectation of return.

In today's world it seems more apparent every day that people look at loving, giving, charitable people as suckers. If the taker pretends to be loving and nice to the giver the taker will be able to get close enough to manipulate money, time, attention, love and depending on how evil the taker is, even to posses their souls, or control their minds. These takers never stop to realize that the giver is human, has feelings and bleed as anyone else does, thus taking no consideration for the giver in any way.

Giving without a price, just because one can, one loves or one cares, no payment, no work to be done in return, no compromising in any way, on the part of the person or people's receiving, then these gifts of charity are giving from the heart of the universe. Givers such as these are the true givers.

Below is a song written by One whom I learned a great deal from:
George Harrison.
He could not have said it better:

Isn't it a pity
Isn't it a shame
How we take each others hearts
And cause each other pain
How we take each other's love
Without thinking any more
Forgetting to give back
Isn't it a pity
Some things take too long
But how do I explain
Cause all to many people
Can see were all the same
And because of all the tears
Our eyes can't hope to see
The beauty that surrounds us
Isn't it a pity.